tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post6744974678921959110..comments2015-09-02T09:54:45.853-05:00Comments on Righting the Courtship: “In the Arithmetic of Love, One Plus One Equals Everything" Mignon McLaughlinDater at Largehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11683394204302227510noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-89608422631282593532012-01-11T21:39:16.682-06:002012-01-11T21:39:16.682-06:00Thank you for this blog. That's all I can say....Thank you for this blog. That's all I can say. You most positively have made this blog into something that's eye opening and important. :)<br /><br /><a href="http://www.luvessentials.com/" rel="nofollow"><b>pheromone cologne</b></a>eula_whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10102514857044473415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-59880109374558407822010-11-25T00:58:30.094-06:002010-11-25T00:58:30.094-06:00i don't invite just any guy i'm kinda dati...i don't invite just any guy i'm kinda dating to meet my friends. but then again i don't necessarily think it's a huge deal. (and yes i know i'm contradictory like that :P)<br /><br />i say invite him. maybe let him know 2 weeks in advance? that sounds bout the right time such that it doesn't seem like it's so last minutue nor that it's so planned. and hopefully you'll still likely to be interested in seeing him in 2 weeks time :Pjohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16046420719365885236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-64737215265647627352010-11-23T17:06:06.102-06:002010-11-23T17:06:06.102-06:00Dear Anonymous, Have I gone crazy? Perhaps, but i...Dear Anonymous, Have I gone crazy? Perhaps, but if you think I'm crazy it's likely I've been this way for awhile (see any of my previous posts for reference).<br /><br />I freak out about dating stuff, that's no secret, and it's something I'm both aware of and trying to work on.<br /><br />I'll be sure to take your comment as constructive criticism.Dater at Largehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11683394204302227510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-59752905950136906802010-11-23T15:46:09.097-06:002010-11-23T15:46:09.097-06:00Have you gone crazy? Since when has meeting someon...Have you gone crazy? Since when has meeting someone's friends become "a big step"? It's meeting someone's family that is the "big step"! Asking the man/woman you are seeing in a casual dating relationship to join you at events is just saying "Hey, I like spending time with you and think we could have fun at this ." If he/she declines it's ok. They could have other plans, not be a fan of , or aren't the social butterfly you are and just prefer to stay home. You are turning a simple moment into a dramatic do or die. Stop over thinking everything and ask him. If he says "Yes" great! Have fun. If not then wait for the next event and ask again. If he continues to say "No" you'll have your answer. Then you can worry about the next step. Finally, a person doesn't say yes because they are hoping to meet your friends. They say yes because they want to spend time with you. What happens if he says "yes" and then afterwards doesn't like your friends? Are you going to stop inviting him? Or give him another opportunity to get to know your friends they way you do? (For the record, and you should know this, not everyone is meant to get along.) Good Luck whatever you decide.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-80741058404119820782010-11-23T10:07:17.765-06:002010-11-23T10:07:17.765-06:00I agree, those events are supremely awesome... I c...I agree, those events are supremely awesome... I can't imagine who wouldn't want to go.Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15199195243780906123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-73302281847604486972010-11-23T05:26:29.091-06:002010-11-23T05:26:29.091-06:00I say invite him. You'll be able to gauge his ...I say invite him. You'll be able to gauge his level of commitment to you by his reaction.Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14112444231947451277noreply@blogger.com