tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post4428530657314714124..comments2015-09-02T09:54:45.853-05:00Comments on Righting the Courtship: I Think I Just Got Schooled!Dater at Largehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11683394204302227510noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-39923564483286726922010-01-06T21:15:07.545-06:002010-01-06T21:15:07.545-06:00Nicole: I agree that a second shot (or benefit of ...Nicole: I agree that a second shot (or benefit of the doubt) is called for in the very short term, depending on what you're dealing with obviously. I do have a pattern of giving people way too much leeway, and that I will be trying to curb.Dater at Largehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11683394204302227510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-41217741849239244092010-01-06T18:46:23.068-06:002010-01-06T18:46:23.068-06:00brilliant advice :)brilliant advice :)Jenny DBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08071690430502276672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-35127833383812959452010-01-06T08:44:40.699-06:002010-01-06T08:44:40.699-06:00I think Simone's friend is onto something that...I think Simone's friend is onto something that is a slightly tempered version of your anonymous advisor's game plan: "stop giving people *so many* second chances." In other words, *a* second chance is probably OK, depending on what the infraction or weirdness was. More than that, not worth it.Nicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15199195243780906123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-40841155359362910592010-01-05T21:23:26.671-06:002010-01-05T21:23:26.671-06:00Jo: I'm not yet over the new crush, he's o...Jo: I'm not yet over the new crush, he's on thin ice but I'm hoping we've reached an understanding about what I'm looking for (which seems to be what he's looking for as well). We'll see.<br /><br />Simone: We will do better! I have a friend who's all about the "Next" list of guys. I recommend getting one of those to keep you honest :-)Dater at Largehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11683394204302227510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-14221061468156032432010-01-05T19:31:52.232-06:002010-01-05T19:31:52.232-06:00How funny, I just got almost the same exact from a...How funny, I just got almost the same exact from a friend last night. I was talking to him about a recent situation and he interrupted and said, "You have to stop giving people so many second chances. Just go with your gut." And he's right. When I think of all of the guys I've gone out with once, twice, three times that were a total waste of time because, in my gut, I knew they weren't the guy.<br /><br />This year we'll do better!Simone Granthttp://www.sex-lies-dating.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-28905868623529628012010-01-05T10:45:08.891-06:002010-01-05T10:45:08.891-06:00Brilliant advice!Brilliant advice!Kitty Moorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00092976597645442642noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-9205540110841758912010-01-03T20:06:56.953-06:002010-01-03T20:06:56.953-06:00this is excellent advice. i think we all know this...this is excellent advice. i think we all know this, except that actually sticking to it can sometimes be hard 'coz of the whole emotions / hormones getting in the way kinda thing. i'm disappointed with your new crush (or are you already over that crush?). he seems so flaky which is never a good sign.<br /><br />anyhow happy new year to you. may 2010 bring more happiness :)johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16046420719365885236noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-78517115425879478122010-01-03T10:01:41.509-06:002010-01-03T10:01:41.509-06:00No can do, buddy. This could be the advice I'...No can do, buddy. This could be the advice I've been missing all along!Dater at Largehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11683394204302227510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1529787780371721753.post-76440572454867148482010-01-03T08:49:53.635-06:002010-01-03T08:49:53.635-06:00This. Is. Genius. However, I kindly ask you to del...This. Is. Genius. However, I kindly ask you to delete it from your blog - I wouldn't want any of my potential dates reading it.<br />plentymorefishoutofwater.blogspot.com/Plentymorefishoutofwaterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13082519518524749450noreply@blogger.com